I have Just joined this site.
I have a very long suffering girlfriend who has for the fourth time caught me in the act of chasing affection, sex & new love.
I put myself in her shoes and know that I wouldn’t be with her if she put me through what I have put her through, We love each other so much and she is only still with me not because she is weak and needy but because she just about believes that I have a problem and my acts do not correspond with who I am day to day.
Our relationship is at the moment on the rocks and I’m sleeping in the spare room but this is my time to change my ways, I have a counseling session booked for the 1st Oct. and I want to get more spiritual again.
Can someone please give me some words of advice and encouragement. Thanks