i can't go on like this help
Hi
i have a problem my god i finally am realising after years of pretending to myself that it was just a high sex drive that i have a problem,i can't stop having one night stand,affairs with married men,cyber sex watching porn god i spend most of the day in the pusuit of sex and i can't stop
i feel so ashamed of myself the things i am doing the lengths i will go to just to feel good about myself for a brief bit of time..it's gettting worse the level of sex i need is getting nastier and more extreme,i've manipulated so many people just to get what i want
i've lost my marriage to this recently and i'm being the most rubbish mum in the world because all i seem to want is my next buzz
this empty worthless feeling is getting worse and i keep trying to stop and then feel scared so i go online again and hook someone else
please what do i do i know i have to stop
i live in portsmouth i don't know if there is a meeting i can go to and dam if i do how do i actually admit to people that i have a problem,i don't know what to do
thank you
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M6wow, this is the most
M6wow, this is the most frank admission of a problem i have ever heard, well done! I feel proud for you: that is the first step to stopping. I fully understand what you are going through and people are here to help you! Sex addiction cost me my marriage too but worst of all, it robbed me of my self worth - but i can say i have regained that. YOU WILL TOO! Now you have started this cycle of breaking free of your addiction - DON'T STOP, DON'T GIVE UP! You are not alone.
dont despair, it feels
dont despair, it feels like a living nightmare at first,but the slaa meetings are very healthy and healing and we can recover from this complicated addiction if we seek help.god bless ,you'll be fine,just get to a meeting if you can.
Dont despair! Recognising a
Dont despair! Recognising a problem is the first and biggest step in changing it. There is a brilliant therapist on the south coast, [details removed by moderator], may be easier for you to have some help one to one at first to get over shame etcBest of luck
Well done in admitting a
Well done in admitting a problem. It isn't easy. Takes real courage. This website cannot endorse or provide details/ private telephone numbers of professionals or counsellors - certainly cannot name names, so the previous reply will soon be wiped or edited to remove these details before long. In the mean time, there is a meeting for women only in Portsmouth - just follow the links on the left of this page to the Meetings & England section - it could't be clearer. Women's meetings will be especially sensitive to you & your situation. They wiill certainly share & understand your feelings, so there is no reason for shame to get in the way of getting help. Women's meetings can be the safest way for many women to get help in this stuff. Let us know how you get on. All the best.